Toad Stories

Please share one of your “Todd Stories” with us: toad.hollow@toadhollow.com.

Frankie:

I am still on an emotional high from Todd's Celebration of Life.  I can honestly say that was a highlight of my life.  Never have I experienced such a genuine outpouring of love and admiration for an individual who, in this case, just happened to be a man who embraced life, and lived it to the hilt.  Thank you for the opportunity to experience that day.

I only regret I did not have a recorder--everyone's comments were so poignant.  Robin's remarks, of course, while occasionally "raw," were priceless.

Since you so wisely read your message, I know there is a written script.  I would love to have a copy of your script--to share (with your permission), and to treasure.  Is there any way you would consider sharing it with me?

You do realize, don't you, that we fully expect you to be in Tulsa next May for the Philbrook Wine Experience?  Todd told me more than once that it was one of his favorite events.  You have a lot of friends in Oklahoma, and they all would love to see you.

Know that we (I am speaking for Denice, too) love you!  Gayle also wanted me to convey her love to you.

Kindest regards...
Bryan

To everyone at Toad Hollow and especially Frankie, my husband, Bill, and I would like to express our condolences and extreme sadness at the loss of Dr. Toad. We had the pleasure of meeting both Todd and Frankie at a wine dinner at Canyon Grille here in Coon Rapids, MN last year. Conveniently we were heading out to the wine country several weeks after the dinner and Dr. Toad invited us to visit him at Toad Hollow. We exchanged e-mails in the ensuing days to coordinate times and ended up visiting Toad Hollow, meeting the team and sharing wine and stories with Dr. Toad! He made us feel special and valued as customers and as members of the Toad Hollow wine club. We were looking forward to seeing him again on our next visit.

Right now we're in the process of building a wine cellar. Awhile back, before meeting Dr. Toad in person, we ordered several Toad Hollow posters to frame and put into the cellar. Todd actually signed them "From Dr. Toad to Nancy and Bill". We are thrilled to have these mementoes in our wine cellar, a special tribute of our own to a wonderful, genuine and friendly man. We will miss you Todd and thanks for your hospitality!

Sincerely,
William and Nancy Kingston
Minneapolis, MN

As a fellow road warrior in the world of wine, I had many opportunities to share a beer or a glass of wine with Toad (and if I was very lucky, Frankie as well) in some of the far flung cities of the United States. No person I have met could possibly match the Toad for the sheer passion for living.

An icy cold local brew served by a pretty girl after a long tasting was a cause for celebration in itself. Toad relished a good thing whether large or small and always took time to invite the people around him to the party.

Every few months I could rely on a voice mail from Toad to simply “growl at me” and threaten me with extinction if we couldn’t get together for a glass soon. Well, I missed that glass and I miss the Toad dearly. When someone with that much life inside leaves us, the world dims a little bit.

My thoughts are with the Williams family and all the others sorely missing his place at our table.

Elton Slone
General Manager, Robert Craig Winery

Dear Frankie and all those close to Todd,

I met Todd and Frankie only once. It was about 2½ years ago. I am from Kansas City, and a good friend brought me out to California to meet "The Toad."  I hate to fly. I am not a great driver --especially in foreign territory. Having never been to wine country, I was of course pleasantly surprised. None more so than by the hospitality of Todd and Frankie.

My husband wears his Toad Hollow baseball cap with pride at not only the wine, but the memory of gracious and lovely hosts. We came to California to ask for help on a project, and left with new friends. Our project remains in process, but the friendship taught us all a lesson in how to love simply, breathe deeply and laugh with all our hearts. Todd -- we honor you every time we raise our glass. Frankie -- our hearts will always bear a special place for you and The Toad.

Laurie Ingram

I met Todd in 1967 and he was my one of my roommates for a short time in 1974. I got married and had my first son in July of '75. Todd took me for my follow-up with the doctor and after that he took me to the drug store so I could purchase condoms for the very first time. I didn't know what to ask for so Todd helped me.  Now if that isn't a true friend ...

Todd was my confidante and always had time for me. He and Frankie trusted me with Hank and gave me the key to their home and their hearts. Love you forever.

Your friend,
Rochelle

I met Todd and Frankie in 1987 when I was lucky enough to work with Frankie. 

Like it is said, everyone has a story of Todd.  I guess what comes to mind is at his 50th birthday he had to kick ass on some crazy boyfriend of a woman who worked with me and Frankie.  That was the kick ass side of Todd.  It was like he turned to a live action figure right before my eyes.  Clearly he was a man you wanted on your side.  At this party it was clear how much Todd and Frankie's friends cherished them.  It was then that I saw all his friends from Arnold and San Francisco and I realized how once you were his friend, you would remain in his life because Todd and Frankie made sure of it. 

We loved the party side of Todd and I loved those Tarkington Christmas parties in San Francisco and Todd's expertise on all the best places to go.  But mostly, I saw the loving side of Todd.  His love of life, love of play, love of food, love of wine, love of people, love of Hank and most of all love for Frankie. 

I guess my favorite story is a tribute to how hard Todd worked.  A couple of years ago my husband and I were on a small sail boat going to feed the sting rays in the Grand Caymans.  My husband had on his t-shirt from Toad Hallow.  A couple on this little sail boat recognized the shirt and knew Frankie and Todd and we went into a wonderful conversation about them, California, etc.  People everywhere knew him.  That's just how it was. 

Frankie, thank you for keeping me in your life.  I am here for you anytime.  I love you.

Leslie

I am fortunate to say I have quite a few stories to remember from the short time I have known Frankie and Todd and I plan to share them with people for the rest of my life.  I do want to tell everyone how privileged and honored I am to be able to say Frankie and Todd are my friends.  The generosity they have shown me will live forever in my heart and carry on in the spirit of Tilted Palm Beverages. 

Although my heart is broken and saddened beyond words, the love that I witnessed at Todd's Memorial Celebration will forever inspire me to strive to be a small measure of that man, my friend and my mentor, Todd Williams.  Todd, you gave to me your time, which now turns out to be precious, you gave to me your business savvy, which has been invaluable, you have given me your advice, which has proven to be fatherly and most importantly you gave to me your friends, which in the end is the only true measure of a man's worth.   A worth I now know is immeasurable and you gave of it so freely.  I will miss you forever.

Your friend,
Tom Laffey
Tilted Palm Productions
Franklin, TN 37069

To put it simply – how a person led their life is usually summed up by how those we leave behind remember us.

Toad will be missed.  His irreverent humor, limitless generosity and gift of gab made an impact on everyone’s life he had the opportunity to affect.  Toad was one of those wonderful individuals who never met a stranger.  He would welcome and embrace all around him, making them family.  In representing Toad Hollow I would often run into people who met the ol’ Toad and were immediately taken by his charms.

I may not have known him as well or as long as many others but I can truly say my life was blessed and enriched by the inclusion of Todd Williams in it.  Quite simply put – the memory of Toad will continue to enhance our lives and he will be missed.

Brian Moore
Bouchaine Vineyards, Inc.

My dearest Frankie,

When my sister passed away at the age of 28 our broken hearted grandmother told me something that she had once read that has remained with me to this day: "A life lived long enough is not always lived well enough, but a life lived well enough is always lived long enough."  As I sit here today I cannot think of a life lived more well than the good Dr. Toad's. 

In fact, we've had a simply marvelous time recently  telling old stories, be they true, partially true or complete and utter fabrications.  Today is Ben's 11th birthday party or we would not have been able to resist the temptation to fly out for the celebration of Toad's life.  Please know that you and the Toad Hollow family are in our constant thoughts and prayers.  If there is of course any little thing we can do to help you please let us be the first you call upon.

Sincerely,
Kyle

I am one of those who go way back ... to the home town of Versailles, Kentucky where I worked with Todd's mother, Susan, in the Woodford Bank. She and Todd were very close and I remember him many times in the bank where he would come in and light up everyone's life. I have lost contact with him over the years, but I still remember him as a true sprit in every way. The world will miss a very great gentleman.

Nickie Shryock
Versailles, KY

Frankie,

Richard and I were so saddened to hear of the loss of Todd.  We truly enjoyed the evening we spent with the two of you in San Antonio at the Rodeo.  However, the best memory I have of Todd was at the Vintner's Dinner at Vintij in Sandestin, Florida.  After the dinner and the wine tasting, Todd went over to the entertainer and took over the entertainment for a short while.  Was I surprised to hear what a great voice he had.  He made the evening with his impromptu performance. 

We know how much he will be missed by you and all of his friends and family.  We count ourselves as blessed to have been able to know him just a little.

Richard Horne & Lynell Biegler Horne

Dear Frankie and everyone else at Toad Hollow,

When I first moved to Sonoma County six years ago and saw the Toad Hollow labels, I decided, "These are my kind of people.  They know how to enjoy life and I want to get to know them." I was so pleased when we met and there were small but meaningful connections.  I liked Todd and Frankie immediately and as many have said, they felt like family and friends almost right away. 

Todd was real.  He was sincere (sometimes gruff in a sweet way) and yet always had a twinkle in his eye. I am grateful for feeling part of the Toad Hollow family and for the short time I was able to spend time with Todd.  My sincerest sympathy to Frankie and for all others who were touched by such a wonderful spirit. I am sorry to miss the tribute to Todd this Saturday as I am still in the East Coast eating Lobster.  But I will do a toast to Todd on Saturday night with my wine-loving peers.   

Much love,
Jamie Spooner
Planeteria

It is funny how life runs in a big circle. My brother was a comedian in the 80's and 90's and actually did a couple charity events in San Francisco at the same venues with Robin Williams. I thought that was really cool. I have boasted at many parties of the people with whom my brother has rubbed elbows.

Many years later I opened a restaurant in Birmingham, Alabama with my family and ventured into my first serious wine list. I had great difficulty getting allocations or any hard to get wines for that matter. I had Toad Hollow Chardonnay, Pinot Noir, and Amplexus on my list and they were great sellers.

When Pinot Noir turned into the “must have” grape, I had a hard time getting Toad Hollow Pinot and actually took it off my list. I then e-mailed Todd and asked whether or not I should even put it on my next list, of course thinking I would hear back from some 18-year-old in P.R. But Todd returned my e-mail and gave me the entire city's allocation of Pinot Noir, two autographed posters, t-shirts and wine tools for employee contests. It may be the norm for your winery, but no one else has made me feel so privileged to sell their product. I now brag that I knew Todd Williams, and only wish I could have met him before his passing.

Cheers, Dr. Toad.

I
General Manager
Grey House Grille
Homewood, AL  

We were very fortunate to answer and ad for a wine dinner at the L&N Bistro in Louisville, KY, probably a year or more ago, which featured Todd Williams and friends presenting their different wines during the dinner. We had a wonderful time; it seemed very close knit, with everyone seated at tables in the various rooms that make up this restaurant, in an old, historical home changed to a restaurant and bar. Todd traveled throughout the rooms greeting folks as they wined and dined, giving out hats and t-shirts with the toad and his labels and giving us all an education on the various wines we were enjoying along with our meal. We have talked many times about how much we enjoyed that evening and hoped one day we could do it again, as I'm sure everyone that was there that evening has done in the same manner and with fond memories. My husband and I felt he was a wonderful person for doing what he was doing that evening and realize what a loss it must be for his family and friends. We send our thoughts and prayers to you.

I

Todd and I go back a long time. It was a much different time, the 70's and 80's in San Francisco, and Todd was the man in the Marina, the unofficial mayor of Chestnut Street. We met in his bar, Toad Manner, and early on I knew he was different. I watched him ride his motorcycle into the bar and park it on the floor and thought, "Hey, good idea," so I followed. Well, it didn't go over too well but that was thirty years ago and we've been friends ever since.

You will be missed, Todd.

Rusty

It was only a short time ago that I retired and Brenda and I moved to Sonoma County to enjoy the wonders of this beautiful area. One of the first places we encountered was the Toad Hollow tasting room. There we met the splendid representatives of the wines of Toad Hollow. They made us feel at home and could care less that we were wine novices. They shared their tales and painted pictures of the stories behind the labels on each of the Toad's creations entertaining us with each sip.

Because of this immediate connection, we joined the wine club. We have looked forward to each of the 'pick up parties' and especially enjoyed the luau in the summer of '06 and oh so looked forward to this years celebration.

Even though we only met the Toad a few times (and were fortunate enough to listen to several of his tales at the luau), he always made us feel like friends and family in our encounters.

We were terribly saddened by his passing and wish to convey our thoughts and prayers to Frankie and all of his family and all the others that were touched by this man.

The Toad wasn't just the proprietor of Toad Hollow; he was their mentor and leader who imparted his kindness, caring and good nature to everyone that he worked with and it showed in their everyday operations.

We will miss you but you will forever be in our hearts.

Bob & Brenda Forsythe

Todd was a good friend and went to school with both of us. Want to let Frankie know how sad we are in Versailles [KY] and know that our prayers are with all of Todd's friends out there.

Love,
Doug and Ethelwyn Matthews

We met Toad and Francine at a wine dinner in Austin, TX. My girlfriend Tobie and I later visited them at the winery. I had gone to the same high school in New London as Francine! Toad and I had many mutual friends in the bar business in San Francisco. The lunch at Willi's and the winery visit was the highlight of our trip. Toad was a great guy. Francine, our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.

Tobie and Bill
Austin, TX

I was a mere freshman on the Versailles High football team, and one day Coach Pop Collins called a team meeting. There were twelve dozen pairs of football socks missing and Pop was really reading the riot act to the players. A few moments later Todd walked in and Pop looked up and said, “Todd, go home and get all those #@$#&%socks!” Scared the hell out of me. Todd turned around and went out the door and returned only a few moments later since he lived close by on Morgan Street, bringing all of the socks back. This story gets bigger at the start of every University of Kentucky football season in the Tail-Gate Parking lot. Todd called me a few months ago and told me he was going into the hospital for some new parts. All of us here in Versailles will miss him.

Steve Eaves
Versailles, KY

Dear Frankie and the Wonderful Toad Hollow Family -

It has been such an honor, pleasure and privilege to spend time with and get to know Toad and Frankie over the past few years. My memories of our Seaside, Florida trips, the festival and of course our big party will always be with me and warm my heart. You both are so very special and I am blessed to have you as a friend, and to have spent the time that I did with the good Dr.!

As Executive Director of l'Ete du Vin, Nashville's International Wine Auction, I also want to once again thank Toad, Frankie and the entire Toad Hollow family for their support and generosity to l'Ete du Vin over the many years. Your participation, support and friendship will always be very special to us!

Frankie, please know you are in the thoughts and prayers of many here in Nashville! We love you and will always celebrate our time and memories of Toad!

Here's to you, Toad!!!

Love
Mike Haney

Dear Williams and Toad Hollow Family,

My sincerest regards to you and yours. I first came in contact with Todd aka Doc Toad after I contacted him for info for a project I was working on. Years later, we continued to chat and he joked how I was his unpaid PR woman in the Big Apple as I constantly sing the praises of his beautiful wines! His generosity was limitless and he even donated wines for a tasting I did in honor of the NYC AIDS Walk. He was a warm, funny and exceptional human being! Prior to his passing he sent me a housewarming gift of posters and wine, which I treasure dearly. I will raise a glass and shed a tear in memory of this precious man who touched so many!

CJ Lester

To share all the memories of our dear, but a bit “off the wall”, Todd (Toad) Williams during the 1970’s on Chestnut Street would be impossible … but I will always remember that wide smile, as I came into Toad Manner. He was one of the first people I met right after I took a train from Spokane to San Francisco, and met him at the Swiss Village in 1966. My 30th birthday was held at Toad Manner ... in 1975! He lit up the room, and was always “on,” the great showman that he was.

As a single young woman, he made me and my many lady friends comfortable and was very protective. He would warn us straight up if some guy in our company was a jerk … sort of a protective “great uncle.” He loved to share stories with me about those days, and the Marina Maggot cast of characters. Right now, Toad is sharing stories on some lily pad in heaven with Colleen, Don, Neil, and both Bobs. In 1974, right after the Patricia Hearst kidnapping by the Symbionese Liberation Army (SLA), our dear Toad, formed the Marina Liberation Army. We all had jerseys with MLA on them and our names on the back. He was, of course, our leader “Cinque Toad,” named after the SLA’s “Field Marshal Cinque.” I still have my gold jersey, and will wear it proudly at Toad’s celebration of life this Saturday, and what a life to celebrate!

For the past ten years, some of the most fabulous women of Chestnut Street annually get together for a long weekend. I treasure these friendships so much, and Toad certainly had a great part in our coming together back in the early 1970’s ... myself, Barbara Scott, Jane Brevik (Vosika) Eaton, Susan Kohr, Betty Johnson, Rochelle Pelligrini, Sylvia (Sutton) Merritt and Nancy Collins (whom we adopted), and our dear Frankie. We call ourselves the Sun Fried Tomatoes and share an unbreakable bond. Frankie, you know how much we love you and how we all LOVED the Toad. We are heartbroken. You had 29 years with him, and I bet it was never boring! Our thoughts and prayers go out to you, your family and all the Toad Hollow family. God bless you.

Rita Joyce-Stinger

Dear Frankie,

I will forever cherish the time that I spent with you and Todd. Especially am I blessed that I had a good amount of time to visit with him while the rest of your girls were chatting the day we arrived. In many ways Todd and I were kindred spirits. I found him to be a delightfully open and bright person. I think of the photo of you and him when you were young hippies (the one I showed you that was in the drawer in the dining room). Thinking back over all the years of life that you two shared from that time to this I can see that you have a world of experiences that will live on in your heart and keep Todd alive in your life.

I am so grateful for your sharing the guest house with me. It was a unique and wonderful experience. Listening to the coyotes howl during the night; seeing the mist rise from the river and just being in such a tranquil and peaceful place with precious people was very healing. It makes me smile to think that you and Todd had this place for so many years and that you still have it to enjoy for the rest of your life. I know you will always be able to "see" Todd drive in to work at 7:30 every morning as I did and I am so grateful that he was able to do this right up to the very last moment of his life on the planet.

My son who died five years ago taught me a lot about life through his death. It was the last thing for which I thanked him before he died. He keeps teaching me and the information helps me understand that this time on planet earth is but one stop in the ongoing adventure of life. I know for certain that it all gets easier after this go round. Still I know that this is hard for you right now and I send you light to see more clearly the blessing of every experience in life.

I have a beautiful apartment in Asheville right in the heart of town. It would be a joy to have you share this space whenever you feel you need to just get away. I am thinking of you and sharing, to some great extent, your loss.

Love,
Minnie

I've had the pleasure of knowing and working with Todd for over ten years, though it seems like I've known him my entire life. He made it feel that way. Todd was a friend, a mentor and another father for me. I'll miss the "discussions" we had over many different topics, both work and personal.

Since Todd was "technologically challenged," I was the guy who got to help him through every new electronic toy he had to have. I'll miss my 6 AM wake-up calls from him, chuckling through his frustration, saying "Marrrrko" (always with the trill,) "Sorry, but I waited an hour to call. This #%$ thing won't let me get my email!" A few minutes later, a big "Thank you," and he was back to calling up and down the East Coast, twisting arms and patting backs.

I was fortunate enough to watch Toad Hollow grow over these years. Todd embraced every new person as a long lost son or daughter. I am honored that he considered me part of that family. I always tried to caution the freshman that Todd only yelled at you if he loved you. But, of course, Todd loved everyone.

I miss Todd greatly, but I know that his over-sized spirit is in that fog that rolls across these Russian River vineyards each morning, our own Todd micro-climate.

Mark McMullen
Healdsburg, CA

My husband Bill and I met Todd when we made our first trip to the “wine country” about 12 years ago.

The day before we left, Bill had lunch at a New Orleans restaurant, probably Mr. B’s, where he ordered a Sonoma chardonnay. It was from Toad Hollow. He mentioned it to me on the plane to San Francisco. I searched my wine books – it was pre-Internet – and could find no mention of Toad Hollow. While spending a few days in San Francisco, I got the number for a Wine Growers Association and from them a number for Toad Hollow.

I called and Todd answered. I told him about my husband’s encounter with his wine and asked for his location and hours of operation. This was long before I understood about vineyards that catered to the public and those that were private. He explained that they weren’t open to the public, but I could stop by for a visit. We set a date and time.

Bill and I arrived, and Todd took us on a tour of the vineyard. He told us about how he got involved in the business, including how the name Toad Hollow came to be, and about his desire to produce a good tasting and affordable wine. And then he invited us into his kitchen to try some of his wines. He pulled out some left over hors d’oeuvres from his mother’s birthday party, which had been held the previous day. We ate and visited and drank wine – and Todd told us about his love of New Orleans and the Gulf South. We asked about buying some of his wine, and he said he couldn’t sell directly to us (we were still pretty clueless about how things worked). He gave us a couple of special bottles and a recommendation for a great place for dinner and sent us on our way.

It was the highlight of our trip – and a memory we now cherish more than ever. It goes without saying that to this day we have been loyal readers of his charming newsletter and purchasers of Toad Hollow wine. A Toad Hollow poster (circa 1995 and a gift from Todd) hangs in our kitchen. Another cherished memento is an empty bottle of Toad Hollow’s Katrina Recovery Merlot. We were blessed – with only a few nicks and dings on the house and lots of fallen trees. One of the first things I saw at our local market – when the post-Katrina ban on alcohol sales was lifted in our town – was Todd’s Katrina Recovery merlot. I scooped it up, as I remembered that discussion of Todd’s love for the people and food of Louisiana.

Today, I checked my email and found a message from a local wine shop – Hugh’s in Mandeville – that Todd had died. I felt compelled to write – to say thanks for his hospitality so many years ago. He was a charming man – and I am sure you will hear from many people who had a similar experience.

To his friends and family – please know that he will be missed, especially by two Louisianians who spent a delightful couple of hours with him one September afternoon long ago.

Karen Courtney
Covington, Louisiana

I first met Todd & Frankie a dozen plus years ago at a "Nordyke Neighbor Night" gathering in their old Santa Rosa neighborhood. What fun it was to get to sample some of the first wines to be offered by the label! Through the years I did my best to convert others to the Toad Hollow ways, and would bring friends to tastings at the vineyard and later, downtown Healdsburg. A group of us attended last year's winemaker dinner at the Kabab & Curry House. When Todd learned it was my birthday he joined our table for a few courses - what a treat! It always brightened my day to be greeted with a wink, a smile & a hug.

Julie Lambert
Aptos, CA

We were neighbors to Frankie & Todd, and gathered for Nordyke Neighbor Night for several years before folks began to move away. We watched and cheered as they grew their winery to the global success we see today. Bravo! (...and brava!)

Our favorite, perfect, angel memory of Todd was a dinner they delivered to our house after out first son, Matthew, was born in Santa Rosa. They came decked in formal aprons, brought pasta, bread, dessert, Frankie's signature salad ... you know the one, with the pine nuts, apples and Girard's Champagne dressing ... and of course ... wine!

They said this was a time for us to be together as a new family and to relax, not to entertain. They left. It was one of the most caring things anyone has ever done. We did relax, we did celebrate, and we toasted dear people whom we have been lucky enough to call friends for 15+ years.

One of my favorite quotes, by Pericles, is:

"What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments,
but what is woven into the lives of others."

You have left us a quilt! We love you, Todd!

Love,
Paul & Christine & Matthew & Thomas Marciano
Oregon

Dear Frankie,

As much as we think we know how life will treat us and how things will go, we can be so wrong. Sure, Todd was showing signs of age and living, but so are we all. In my mind, he would outlive us all, but that was not to be. A "routine" procedure is never just routine.

That being said, he lives in our hearts and minds. We will forever remember his strong will, his openness, his strong family ethic and bond, and his ability to be a friend without formal ties or weekly visits.

He could entertain a crowd for hours. He was a man of the people, and of kings. He was and is a legend in his own time.

Kim and I will never forget him, nor will we forget that he brought us you. Please remember that we are here for you! Be strong, for you were his strength.

With love and respect in this time of great sadness,
Kim & John Lloyd

Hello Frankie & the Toad Hollow family,

I’m so sorry to hear of Todd’s passing. I first met Todd in 1989 when I was a salesperson with Central Coast Wine Co. and Todd worked at Shafer Vineyards. I was a rookie sales rep when I had the experience of working the day with Todd as one of my first ever “work withs.” He left a lasting impression upon me as he did with most people who had the pleasure of spending any time at all with him. We spent the day riding around Marin County calling upon a lot of Toad’s old “bar buddies” from Sausalito all the way out to Nicasio with Todd filling in the details of his colorful past.
Todd was an unforgettable person. Loud and gruff at times, but deep down he was one of the most genuine and caring individuals you’d ever meet. I had the pleasure of his company both professionally and as a friend over the past 18 years and he will be greatly missed. It was always fun when I would run into him and Frankie at a wine event somewhere or at a Christmas party of a mutual friend where Todd could always be found taking charge behind the bar where he always seemed so comfortable.

I vaguely remember selling the inaugural vintage of Toad Hollow wines in the early 90's. It was approximately 400 cases of Chardonnay with that fun, whimsical label. It’s so gratifying to see how the brand has grown and developed over these many years, and so much of that success is really a tribute to Todd’s endearing personality. As I travel the country, I always smile when I see a Toad Hollow poster hanging on the wall or a floor stack of the wines in whatever wine shop I happen to be visiting. Todd made friends all across the country and was a great “ambassador” for all of us in the wine business. All my best wishes to Frankie and for the continued success of the Toad Hollow brand.

Barry Richter
Director of Sales
Testarossa Vineyards

Sometimes it is hard to know if the wine makes the winery experience or if the wine maker makes the experience. In our case, it was spending an hour with Todd.

My husband, George, and I visited Toad Hollow by appointment before they had their lovely tasting room in the Square. We met Frankie, their dachshund and Todd. Frankie immediately zoned in on the fact that we were from Washington, DC where she had lived and worked for several years. Between the local thread and Todd's one-on-one personal introduction to his wines...we were completely transformed as to what a wine tasting experience could be.

Todd made wine interesting, fun, and intimate - because you were able to see what his goals were and he was interested in yours too.

What my husband and I love about Sonoma is that it is a farming community first and foremost. Run and cared for by real people who love nothing more than working with mother nature and an artistic flare to create a perfect wine. Todd and Frankie truly emulate that and helped us articulate what it is that we love about Sonoma above all other wine regions.

One year later, after my husband's and my visit to the actual winery, I was visiting Healdsburg on a week’s vacation alone and happened to run into Frankie and Todd on the street near their newly opened winery. I stopped and spoke before thinking and then was embarrassed because I was sure there was no way they would remember me as I remembered them - I reminded Frankie about my husband's and my visit the previous year and that we were from DC - I never mentioned my husband's name - Todd said - so where's George? I was shocked! What a memory!

My husband and I will always cherish our memory of sitting with Todd for an hour - just the three of us and his dog - with Frankie checking on him regularly. It was so obvious that he was loved, was doing what he loved, and loved those who loved him. I will always think of Todd as a man rich in love, loving and being loved. We should all be so lucky!

My husband George and I send our heartfelt sympathies to you, your staff and in particular to Frankie. Our thoughts remain with you all.

Sincerely yours,
Charlotte Meyer

Our hearts are saddened by the news of Todd's passing. While we have only been blessed this year to have known Dr. Toad and Frankie, our lives are richer for having crossed paths with him. We met him in an unlikely place (in Mexico on our honeymoon!) but our common love for wine bonded us all immediately. We will always cherish those times we had with him there, as well as visiting him in Healdsburg, and hold dear his wonderful stories. Some of the fondest memories of those trips were Frankie and I rolling our eyes at Todd and my husband as they swapped outrageous restaurant stories (and me trying to pull them apart for some alone time!). "Two Peas in a Pod" we called them. Rod's Pride has been a staple in our collection ever since our first bottle with Todd and Frankie on the beaches of Mexico and his memory will remain in our hearts forever.

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you, Frankie, and all those touched by his life. We are so lucky to have known him.

Nicole & Murray Pawloski
Austin, Texas

Todd and Frankie have been good friends of my family for a long time... since before I can even remember! When they came to my high school graduation in 2000, Todd said to me, “I remember when you were this big!” and I remember talking with him for a long time that day and thinking “This guy is really funny!” Todd and Frankie lit up the room together and made any event they were at more fun. My mom loved going to the Toad Hollow events and joking around with Todd. She appreciated his sense of humor and I think the two of them really understood what was important and how precious life is because they were both battling life-threatening conditions.

Todd was someone who knew the point of why we were here and soaked up every minute that he could. The only solace to be had is to know he is no longer burdened by a body that couldn’t keep up with him. As was the case with my mom when she passed away, you have to feel relief for him because he is finally free from the constant worry of having a major health problem, even though we will miss him and wish that he had been able to do all that he wanted here on earth. I know that he and my mom are enjoying a glass wine together in heaven, watching over us all and helping us to figure out what they knew all along. I am honored to have known Todd. Frankie, please know that we are here for you if you need anything.

Thank you,
Amy O'Neill

All of us at Wine Merchants were deeply saddened to hear the news that Todd had passed away. Dr Toad’s persona has been a part of the Wine Merchants culture in Minnesota since the beginning, partially because the Toad Hollow brand has meant so much to our company as it has developed over the years, but I think more so because of the relationships that we have developed over time with you, the winery staff, and especially Todd - he will be deeply missed by everyone. It was a sad day in Minnesota.

I look back now and really appreciate the week that I was able to spend with you and Todd in Minnesota a couple of years ago, when Todd was feeling good and full of energy. We literally traveled the state of Minnesota making new friends and gaining new customers. I will never forget the Toad Hollow wine dinner at Crescendo in Albert Lea with Todd taking the microphone and singing a little blues (while the chef played the piano) to the total delight of the one hundred guests in attendance. That was truly the most unique wine dinner that I have ever experienced. Todd understood what it meant to have fun and to put on a show – something we can all learn from in this business.

Frankie, I speak for everyone by saying that out thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Best personal regards,
Frank Kohoutek

I am so sorry to hear about Toad. He was one of my favorite people. Always funny, loads of fun and full of fire. I worked with Todd at Vendemmia and Atlanta Wholesale, as well as my brief stint in Charleston with Coastal. I know that he is going to be missed by so many!!! I'll think of him as I raise a glass of Eye of the Toad (my personal favorite!!). My sympathies are with you. I hope you find comfort in knowing how much he was loved and how many lives he touched.

With deepest sympathy,
Susan Petruccelli Favret

Frankie,

While I know that emails are so impersonal, there is only so much I can fit on the token Hallmark card (which is on the way) and I'm sure the last thing you need right now is yet another phone call.

I've been trying to decipher my thoughts over the past couple of days and the thing that keeps coming to mind is how much more I wish I knew about Todd. I wish I had spent more time with him. I have so many questions I would like to ask so that I could just "kick back" and listen to the answers and the stories, I'm sure, that surround those answers. What a storyteller he was.

I know that Todd's main health issue was his heart. However, I see that as his largest gift as well. It seems as if his heart was so BIG when it came to others. I recall his response to the Hurricane Katrina situation. I know his donation of the proceeds from the Katrina label helped so many of the masses. Yet, in talking to Dwayne Shockley during that time, I know Todd reached out to individuals as well in so many ways. This was apparent, as well, in the many fund-raisers that have benefited from the hospitality of you both as you have donated these weekends at the cottage, with the highlight being time with you both. This was also apparent as he spoke about his relationships - and how much he treasured those. I know there are countless numbers of individuals around the world that are grieving with you and the team at Toad Hollow. And, this grieving comes as a result of the impact that the two of you have had on our lives.

Another of Todd's gifts that was amazing to me was his memory. It seemed as if he never forgot a name and a situation. This comes, I'm sure, as a result of his interest in others as being sincere. My prayer for you is that your memories of your time with him last forever as well. I feel confident that there are so many stored in your mind that will bring back quite a few chuckles as you reach back and draw on them.

In speaking to Erik last week, he indicated the possibility, perhaps in the future, of some type of service celebrating Todd's life. I look forward to being able to attend that time together, if that is what you decide to do. Perhaps then I can listen to others and their stories of time with Todd, so that I can get to know even more about this remarkable person. Maybe, even, I will get some of the answers to my many questions I would ask him.

Until then, while so far apart, I know I can pray for you and the others - and that commitment is something I take seriously. My prayer for you, individually, is that God would enable you to have a comfort and peace through these coming days that would be evident of His presence and His pleasure.

Please know that Victoria and I hurt for what you have been going through, yet at the same time look back and realize that we are blessed by having been touched by you both.

Sincerely,
Phil Dickhaus

Two years ago, my husband and I were fortunate to attend a private wine tasting with Todd. Even though we had traveled to the area several times, never had the experience been so informative and so enjoyable. "Dr. Toad" truly made wine for the best of reasons and reminded all of us present that it was to be enjoyed and shared.

Meeting Todd helped me to see that I needed to re-evaluate my directions in life and "find my bliss." Our brief meeting has meant so very much to me and to my husband. He was a delightful, beautiful man and I am so proud to have been allowed a slice of his time.

My thoughts and prayers go out to Frankie and all the folks there in Healdsburg. He will always be remembered and loved.

Carolyn Atkinson

Thanks to Todd, who gave a girl from Mississippi a chance to sell his wines, he helped me start my brokerage.

His heart was good as gold. He was always letting me have wines for fund raisers to help the homeless or help with culinary scholarships. The contribution that Todd and Toad Hollow made to the school system of Waveland/Bay St. Louis after their devastation from Katrina with the Katrina Merlot was most appreciated. I still have requests for the wine.

Always smiling, always joking, Todd you will be missed but always remembered.

Susan Harris Wingert
NSH Wines
Batesville, MS

Todd and I were on the same wavelength for picking up our mail from our P.O. Boxes at the Healdsburg Post Office. I almost always had to think before I spoke because I didn't want to call him "Toad" instead of Todd.

This seems to be the place to meet in Healdsburg, and Todd and I would exchange news about the weather, the neighborhood (he and Frankie live next door to our good friends), and of course, the wacky world of wine. I found him to be divinely generous in spirit and in sharing his earthly goods, too. That's another place Doug and I would run into him, around all those local fundraisers involving people and kids. And he and Frankie were so supportive of the Fraize's next door with all of their family's life celebrations and losses, as well. ("Joy and Woe, woven fine. Clothing for the soul divine.")

I will be forever grateful that our schedules again crossed on Saturday, August 11, when we met in the parking lot at the Post Office. His smile could light up the whole block.

He matter-of-factly told me about the three things that he had wrong with his heart.
He hated to make Frankie sad because she didn't like it when he couldn't be his usual (I would add "wonderful") self. He looked great and sounded strong that morning.

It is an honor and a privilege to have known him (and his sidekick, Frankie).

Peace and love,
Lee Nalle (and Doug)

Back in the late 70s/early 80s, I had the pleasure of knowing Toad. I played softball for the team sponsored by Toad Manner, his no frills bar. I was there at least once a week from spring to autumn, usually after we had won another one for Toad. He was a truly friendly, humorous man who we all became friends with. Often, after our games, while we were celebrating at Toad Manner, his brother Robin would burst through the doors with his (then) entourage of about ... two.

He will be missed by me, Marc, Russell, Steve, Bill, Jay and all the rest of us on "Toad's team." Most of us are still playing softball in our dotage and often we talk about the good times with Toad at his bar.

When I say Toad Manner was "no frills" I mean it. Occasionally a "newbie" would walk up to the bar and order, say, a Mai-Tai or Chi-chi. Toad would kindly explain that he didn't make those drinks.

Then he would offer them directions to Trader Vic's.

Patrick Largent

Aloha with our deepest sympathy from Maui,

Dr. Toad was one of the most genuine people we have ever known. He and Frankie quickly became two of our favorite people on the planet. I am so happy that I was able to see him this past May at the tasting room. It was then that he invited me to his 70th Birthday party next year, but only if I brought my wife Lois. When I received the e-mail from the winery on Tuesday I was in shock. Our hearts go out to Frankie and the rest of the crew at the Hollow. Our memories are many including two memorable wine dinners at Hula Grill on Maui where the crowds went absolutely wild. Just last year in May, Lois and I spent some time at the cottage at the winery. The highlight of our trip was having a barbecue with Frankie and Toad at their home. It was as if we were hanging out with family as the four of us sipped Toad Hollow wines and laughed and laughed. We will miss him very, very much. Cheers!

Lois and Roger Ross
Kahului, Maui, Hawaii

I met Todd Williams four years ago when I accepted a new position at Wine Merchants, the Toad Hollow distributor, in the great state of Minnesota. There are few people I have associated with professionally over the years that touched people the way that Dr. Toad could. I was fortunate enough to experience this on many occasions here in Minnesota and during my visits to the Hollow.

In my relatively short period of time spent with Todd, many memories come to mind. His charm, wit and smile lit up any room he occupied. Whether it be at a dinner at Ursala's in White Bear Lake, Torrey's in Owatonna, or the tasting room in Healdsburg. Watching him was the best poetry a salesman could write. I also remember sharing a couple drives with him discussing business and pleasure with the sincerity and knowledge. He was the first person to tell me my Irish heart may get in the way sometimes. He knew people, the Irish heart and what is right, before I could finish what I was saying. He was right.

I have many memories of Toad, but two stories stick out the most.

I will always remember the dinner two years ago when Todd and I sat next to each other on the picnic table and talked about life. We talked about the important things; family, friends, the favorite movies his brother starred in, the fear that the dog would somehow get off the porch and never come back, and how the love from a certain woman makes life better each day, were the most memorable topics. Prior to arriving at dinner that evening, I was anxious the topics of discussion would be centered around shipments and depletions. There was that too, but I won't forget the time spent with Toad that night because it truly is an important lesson that is easily forgotten. The relationships we have in life are the most important commodity. These should be cultivated and never taken for granted. There is no year in which a poor harvest could take away what the people you surround yourself provide. What a great memory that night ...

I also remember just a few months ago heading to Toad Hollow with a vehicle full of sales reps running on really bad brakes. I called and told Judy we were traveling slower than expected and taking a different route to avoid traffic. That was fine with Judy, but not with Toad. He could sense the frustration and gall in my voice when he called back precisely seven seconds later. Todd wanted to offer some alternative routes, as well as question my intelligence for the road I was traveling at the time. Although he was unhappy with our tardiness, he was relieved at our safe arrival. He pulled me aside, looked me square in the eye and said, "Listen, you stubborn Irishman, I was only trying to help!" With a wink, a smile and a laugh, there was relief and a glass of Sauvignon Blanc to enjoy. I know you were trying to help, Todd, and you did, many times over.

I will miss you as much as you will be missed. God Bless Toad!!

My thoughts and prayers go to Frankie and the entire Toad Hollow family.

Condolences,

Thomas P. Ryan
Sales Manager
Wine Merchants
St. Paul, MN

We have all had the pleasure, and sometimes not-so-much-pleasure, of meeting “big” people in the wine business.

Truly, no one was bigger, nor gave us so much pleasure, as Dr. Toad. He was a gentle giant of a man, who entered any room or place with a grin running the entire length of the area between the ears, and a corkscrew. He shared with us not only the quality beverages he created, but also his philosophy of enjoying life and wine.

“If you are not smiling when you are drinking wine, you are doing it wrong.”

I have used that many times.

When the cruel ravages of Hurricane Katrina passed over New Orleans and the Gulf Coast, he never asked anyone what could be done. He just did something. That “something” was the bottling of the 2001 Merlot Reserve he was holding, and calling it Katrina. The wine sold out everywhere it was placed, except New Orleans.

As the New Orleans market regained a minor semblance of normalcy, the question was asked, “Where is our Katrina wine?” Dr. Toad went back to the bottling line and assured New Orleans that Katrina wine was on its way. The proceeds from all the wine sales went to reconstruction of a society and a city Dr. Toad loved.

Our hearts go out to Frankie and the entire Toad Hollow gang. It is trite, but your loss is really our loss too.

I will be devoting the initial portion of my show, The Wine Show, this Sunday morning, 11 a.m. CDT, to Dr. Toad. You can listen at www.wgso.com, Listen Live! At that time. I will recount to our listeners what this man meant to me and to the entire industry.

As a final note, I do want to be sad, and I am at the loss of this calm and tender spirit. But I knew him, and that means so much. He will live as long as me, in my heart.

Tim McNally
Host The Wine Show
Every Sunday
11 a.m. until 1 p.m.
WGSO 990 AM

I sit here with a very heavy heart as I try to see the screen. I can't believe the email that preceded this one. My heart and my prayers go out to you. He must've been going through a heck of a lot more pain than he let on to us when we were out there. What a tough man! Dr. Toad was one of the best people I have met in the wine business. I consider it an honor to have been able to spend as much time with him as I did. He leaves a big hole in the personality of the American Wine Industry, and he will be missed tremendously!!!

I am so sorry for his loss and what you are going through. I wish there were something I could do to help. You know I'm here for anything you may need.

All our love
Sonia & Wendy

To all the wonderful people associated with Dr Toad, it is with deep sorrow that I read the news of passing. Please pass on my condolences to his family and staff, and I will always remember the good times. Thanks for letting me become a friend to him.

Randy
Post Wines & Spirits
Cos Cob, CT

It was with a heavy heart that I learned of Toad's passing. God, I loved that man! One of my favorite memories of Todd was a rainy, windy afternoon when I beat Todd at "13 aces" a number of times and he had to stagger out of the bar instead of me, for a change. We will miss him but always carry him in our hearts. All of our love to you in this difficult time and we hope you feel our arms around you.

Take care,
Laurie and John Hamilton

Hi Frankie, Julie, Erik, Corinne, Joe and Judy,

I remember Todd slamming down the phone in disgust downstairs and my chair vibrating upstairs from the "slam"! (I say this in absolute fun!) His voice bellowed across the office, but it was a good thing, he was always very gracious to me, and full of funny advice. It was the best job I ever had, and I would give anything to work with you all again (I mean it). I miss you all!

Mary Sherman

Todd was one of those people that you meet the first time and he goes on your list of "friends." The second time, he goes on your "best friends" list. Donn and I met Todd at the dinner/wine tasting here in Frankfort, KY at the Serefini Restaurant just a few short years ago. I had seen the Toad Hollow wines in a wine store window in San Francisco, fell in love with the label and bought a bottle. When he was advertised as coming to Frankfort, I knew my husband and I had to attend. I wanted to meet the person with such a great sense of humor regarding wines. When I told Todd that I was wallpapering one of my basement walls with wine labels, but didn't have many American wine labels, because most wineries in the U.S. use a super glue, whereas wineries in Europe use a water base glue and those lift right off. Todd gave me his card and said remind me when I get back to CA and I will send you some unused labels. Donn and I won his poster that evening and I had hung it on the wall of the stairs going to the basement. When Todd sent a large batch of unused labels to me, I placed them on the wall all around the poster.

Every March, we go to San Francisco to spend two weeks with our daughter, her husband, and their little boy. Our oldest grandson had moved to San Francisco as well shortly before, so Todd invited all of us to come to the winery in Healdsburg for a tour. What a wonderful day we had there, and the Toad Hollow wine tasting shop had just opened and after meeting Frankie, and the office people at the winery, Todd led us to town and we all had generous tastings of all of the Toad Hollow's products. What a wonderful day for us.

After that visit, we became e-mail friends. The next time Todd came to Frankfort, he had a dinner/tasting at the restaurant in Lexington, which we attended as well and had a lovely few minutes visit with Todd and Frankie. Donn and I thought he looked tired, but they had done a great deal of traveling that year.

Last year, I didn't get a response from Todd, but assumed he was just busy with his travels. Then early this year the news letter came out with news of his health problems and surgery. When I e-mailed, he responded that he was doing better and hoped to travel some more this year. My last news from him was a couple of e-mails in May of this year and again, he said he was getting better. I got the news through a local wine store (Capital Cellars) that she had received the notice of his passing just a day after I had been in for lunch. We had just been talking about Todd when I was in, and thinking we might ask him to include the Capital Cellars wine store for a wine tasting the next time he was in KY. I felt as if I had lost a very dear friend. That evening, Donn and I opened a bottle of Erik's The Red, and toasted the loss of a friend that knew how to make the wine industry so much fun.

He has been added to our memories as one of the special people we have known. Our sympathy goes to Frankie, and all of his many friends. He touched so many lives, and will be missed.

Joan and Donn Adrian
Frankfort, Kentucky

How does one pick a "favorite" Todd Story?

Being Frankie's "little sister's friend" (with a not so little mouth), automatically put me in a Todd-targeted position! When I would spend the night the alarm in the guest room would go off at 5 a.m. (after an evening of late-night tasting); or, occasionally I would get locked into the bathroom after, ah-hem, Todd had exited...

He used to tell me "you could give a woodpecker a headache."

We used to sneak drinks and chocolates behind Frankie's back (like she didn't know).

And there were the incredible kindnesses: coming all the way to SF to pick up my car to store in Santa Rosa while I went through extensive spinal surgery; and, coming all the way down to check up on me later on. Frankie and Todd always welcomed me for the holidays so I'd never be alone, but with my California family--the Smith's and Williams...

I love you, Todd...life won't be the same without you...I'm proud of the way you lived your life...you touched SO many people with your great spirit...

With thoughts, love, and fond, fond memories,
Randi Berg

I guess we all knew that this day would come sooner or later, but it's still a shock and his presence on this planet will be greatly missed. His many kindnesses to people like me - just a plain old retailer and grape farmer - were really a symbol of his true appreciation for life and taking joy in the moment. What a special human being. All the best with sorting things out at the winery. I guess he and Rodney will be having a toast upstairs.

Sincerely,
Laurel Hood

Traveling as a guest of my sister-in-law, Becca Cherry (a wine professional), we arrived quite tardy to a private tasting at Toad Hollow a few springs ago. Even still, Todd and his cohort Hank the wonder wiener dog were gracious and entertaining. At my first and what might prove to be my only tasting of Stilton cheese, Todd choked with me...me on the tartness-he on the humor of my reaching for an empty wine glass! The most pleasurable Kodak moment was capturing the image of Hank snuggling under Todd's sweatshirt and peeking through the neck for a kiss. Theirs was the epitome of a man's best friend relationship. Thank you to the Williams' family for a great afternoon. The coasters in my living area are a daily tribute to the memory.

Melissa Cherry
HoustonTX

What a joy to have had the opportunity to do business with. Todd always gave me grief over the phone about selling his wine, a few cases a month is all we could do. He then announced to me that his brother lived here and he was coming to Memphis. OH NO I thought! I set up a wine luncheon in a trendy little restaurant and sweated bullets on the idea of meeting him. And meet him I did. We sat down together and before I could introduce myself, he had already thrown an elbow into my arm. “I am the crusty old bastard that gives you all the grief on the phone”. And then the biggest smile came across his face. And as they say, “the rest is history.” He will be greatly missed at Athens Distributing Company in Memphis.

Russell Horne

This is terrible news. I am extremely sad to learn of Todd's death. I've never forgotten him since the day we met many years ago at a tasting in New York. And I never will forget him, especially his kindness, dedication and sense of humor; not to mention how it was just plain fun to be around Todd. He influenced me very much in how I approach life, wine and how I write about it. Let others charge a lot for mediocre dreck dressed in fancy packages. Todd's focus was on the real thing at a decent price that normal people who actually have to work for a living could afford; quite an accurate reflection of his values and honesty. I feel there is now a huge gap in the world.

You're in my thoughts and heart.

Ken Sternberg

I'm soooooo sorry you guys. Jeez louise. I'll miss him. He was a good guy, a really good guy and I'm very grateful that he was in my life. I'm grateful that all of you are in my life. The Hollow's a wonderful place to be, and Dr. Toad will never, really, be gone from it.

Ann Joly

We are very saddened to hear about Todd. When he came to Kansas City to see us it was always a wonderful time to chat with Todd. He made our day! He was a gentleman in the wine industry and he will always be missed …

Please continue to do what Todd did with his wines … great wines at outstanding values …

Sincerely,
Ralph and Jack Bondon
Berbiglia Wine and Spirits
Kansas City, MO

I just wanted to sent my deepest sympathies on the death of Todd. This marks the passage of an era here with all of us at Republic National Austin because we considered Todd a business partner and a great friend. When Todd visited us here at the office last spring, it was one of those rare occasions when everyone wanted to be in the salesroom. The respect for Todd and the warm personal feelings were so evident.

This really hits hard for all of us older veterans who were here when Toad Hollow was first kicked off in Austin in the mid 1990's. It seems like yesterday when Todd came in and showed us what his plan was and what has transpired is one of the great success stories of the wine business.

Please know that I am thinking of all of you and will look forward to the future together, although with a heavy heart.

Sincerely,

George Gaston
Chain Account Manager
Republic National Distributing Co.
Austin, Texas

I miss Brother Toad already.

Even though I have not seen him in a while, he will remain one of the people that I wish to emulate throughout my life. In my previous employment I had opportunity to interact with Brother Toad regularly as I was the guy that got to update his website. I was amazed at the energy that emanated from this man. As I got to know him more, I admired how hard he and Frankie continued to work to nurture his amazing brand. I loved his “wine for the masses” approach and loved his irreverence and total respect for his craft as only he could pull off. When my wife and I bought a 1952 Chevy Panel Van for our business Relish Culinary School, Todd told me he loved seeing a working man’s truck still out there working. Todd was the working man’s working man.

I now run a little winery myself and often mention Todd as one of my mentors. When I complained about being on the road for just a few weeks a year, I always remembered there was someone out there working harder than me, even if he didn’t have to. I will continue to honor Todd’s memory in my work and feel blessed for having known him.

My heart goes out to Frankie and the entire Toad Family. I will toast him with a bottle of Amplexus this evening. God Bless.

Jim Morris

I was very saddened to hear of Dr. Toads' passing! I first met Todd in 1991 at his home in Santa Rosa. It would be a couple of years before he'd start his successful Toad Hollow Winery, but I was fortunate enough to know him during the early days of representing his wine here in Minneapolis. Of course, he was larger than life. He held the room captive when he hosted a wine dinner at the former Goodfellows restaurant in downtown Minneapolis. In those days it was Todd's huge personality and not really the wine that brought out the interested people. But soon his dream of making fine wine and having fun at the same time succeeded in the creation of the legendary Toad Hollow. I will think of him fondly and I know that he will be missed deeply here in The Twin Cities.

Paul Ragghianti
Lowry Hill

Our prayers and thoughts are with you and yours during this time. Todd brought much laughter into my life, as he did for many others, during the Toad Manner days and will always be in my thoughts. He was one of the most genuinely wonderful persons I ever had the pleasure of knowing. He was a GREAT man and will be missed by all!

Our prayers and thoughts go out for you and your family.

Respectfully,
Robert & Deana McAllister

I am very saddened by Todd's passing, it's been a tough year for the Toad's. I will remember him as one of the last "cool" winery owners in a business that is continuing to take itself too seriously, and where the wine mystifiers are always hard at work. Todd was a realistic breath of fresh air, much as his mentor and partner in crime "the badger" was. RIP Todd & Rod.

If there is anything I can do for you Toad's, please let me know.

Cheers!!
John Rowe

My husband Ron and I are so saddened to hear of the passing of everyone’s friend Todd Williams. We met Todd about 3 years ago while in Healdsburg. We decided to walk into the Toad Hollow wine shop because we were very curious about the wine since we had never heard of it before. We were greeted by Todd and “Mr. Healdsburg” (the young man’s name escapes me at the moment). We were treated as if they had known us all our lives! Todd was very friendly and had us laughing the whole time we were there. We really enjoyed tasting the yummy wines and hearing Todd’s stories of how he came up with the name of the different wines. We took an immediate liking to Todd (he looks just like my Uncle Pete!). We even went back on our way out of town just to say good-bye. It was then that we joined the wine club.

We feel very fortunate and blessed to have met this wonderful man. Our prayers go out to his family. There’s one thing I have learned in losing someone close to me. This (sometimes cruel) world can take someone away from us, but what it can’t take away are the memories and the love we have of that person in our heart. That stays with us until we are reunited with our loved one.

We will definitely make a toast to Todd the next time we open a bottle of Toad Hollow wine!

With fond memories of Todd in our hearts,

Lori & Ron Lytal

We are saddened by the news. Our hearts go out to Frankie and everyone who knew Todd.

We feel like young wine club members. Todd made us feel like family, by operating the vineyard and tasting room where we can feel his passion for life. We're sorry we couldn't have more time to get to know him better. We're honored to be a part of his wine club, and we want to support his legacy. The times we spent in the tasting room and at the vineyard were special, and Todd will be greatly missed.

With Condolences,
Charles and Holly Mortimer

Rob and I send our deepest condolences to you and the staff at Toad Hollow. He truly will be missed. We only met him a couple of times, but when we first became wine members is when we first met the Toad. He was sitting at the end of the bar just taking in the day. I kept talking about how cute the frogs were in the store, on the posters, labels, etc. He kept telling me, “They’re toads!”, which I knew, but at that time of day, I was a bit dazed n confused. So I kept calling them frogs and he kept telling me “They’re damned toads!” So when I go home tonight, I will toast to the life of Todd with his Amplexus. Heaven is in for a great treat.

Amy H Paz

I met Dr. Toad in 1992 when he was National Sales Manager for Whitehall Lane. I was a young Distributor Sales Manager for Julius Schepps Co in Dallas, TX and he made a huge impression.

I did not see Dr. Toad again until 2001 in Charleston,SC where I was General Manager for a distributor called Coastal Wine. We had a fabulous reunion and I have been in contact with him ever since. I have never met a more animated character in the wine business. I spoke with Toad last week and am very sad that I will not be able to spar with him in the future. He is missed but in a greater place! I will think of him every time I enjoy a glass of wine.

Here's to Dr. Toad and passion!

Scott Newitt
Director of Wine
The Capital Group of South Carolina

Hi Guys,

Our hearts are with you.

We are headlining this Saturday at the 150th Birthday Celebration of Healdsburg. I am going to sing "Aint Misbehavin" and dedicate it to Todd, since he always sang that one with us. I hope I can get through it without sobbing. One of the many things I always loved about Todd is that when he smiled (and I'm sure he's smiling down on us right now), he smiled so wide that you could see his bridgework. Now, that's a big smile!

Big hugs and kisses to everyone at the Hollow from me and Manzanita Moon.

xoxoxo
Susie Straight

My husband and I were very fortunate to have enjoyed Todd's company for a private wine tasting.

When we were living in Texas we would come up to California Wine country on weekend trips, but Toad Hollow was not open for tastings on the weekends so we never had the opportunity to stop in. One weekend we decided that we would take the first flight out in the morning so that we could get there in time to enjoy a glass (or two or more) of wine at the vineyard. We had an appointment and thought we would be there in plenty of time, but as most know the traffic getting there from San Fran was terrible on a Friday afternoon. We called to check in and said that we were coming as fast as we could, they asked where we were and proceeded to give us shortcuts to make the journey faster. They also said not to worry that they would wait for us to get there.

When we finally arrived at the vineyard, we sat down at a picnic table with Todd, and at the time had no idea what a delightful and enjoyable experience this was going to be. We tried everything that was available and even a few things that were still in the trial phases. We shared stories and laughs for several hours that afternoon. Todd then asked why we were so determined to make the stop and we told him that Cacophony had been the wine that made us fall in love with the zinfandel grape. We had enjoyed it on a recommendation at a restaurant at home and then promptly went searching for a location to buy it. At the time the distribution network for Toad Hollow wines was not that extensive in Texas, so it was not an easy task. Todd then smiled and walked over and took the last Cacophony poster her had at the Vineyard at the time and handed it to me. It now hangs framed in my kitchen... makes me smile every time I look at it. Such a simple event that Todd made very special as the three of us sat there at that picnic table that day.

May many people share with you some of their special moments …

Sarah Tyler

Melissa and I were fortunate to be included in a wine tasting in Huntsville, Alabama.The event was held at "The Green Bottle Grill," owned by a close friend, Rick Paler. After the presentation by Todd, we sat and had a glass of wine with him. He was delightful.

It was as if we had known him forever. We had first discovered Toad Hollow Chardonnay when we were in Sonoma on a visit. We bought some because of the great label and found a great wine. We called you when we got home and found we couldn't get it in Alabama. We had to go to Nashville. We told Rick and the rest is history. I am so glad we got to meet Todd.

Thank you for writing us. Our prayers are with you and his family.

Sonny Craig

I met Todd in early 1968 when he was working in a place called the Marina Lounge on Chestnut St. in the city. Like so many others, I became an instant Toad groupie, and thereafter was held by him to be one of the core group of 'maggots' of the Marina. Worked with him as a bouncer at the Swiss Village in '69 with the likes of 'Buffalo Bob' Owens, John Poe lll, and this teamster thug named Jack Spratt. Frankie knew all of them as well, although she came into his life a bit later, I believe.

We have stayed in touch through all these years, getting together when possible or via email and phone the last 10 yrs or more. When they came to Phoenix, we got together. I left Santa Rosa in 1990, but still visited often and we'd get together in town or out at the office for lunches. My wife remembers the years they had the Whiskey River Inn up in Arnold warmly, as we would go up to Calaveras Big Trees State park and camp just to get together. He and I would get together often when he moved back to Sonoma County and worked for John Shafer, Whitehall, and the Vintners Inn up in St. Helena as he progressed toward the partnership with Rodney.

He was from the beginning to the end a remarkable marketer. His gift was himself....his wonderful sense of humor, and marvelous ability to tell stories. He was the big brother I never had...taught me a lot in the early days. In near 40 years, we never had a harsh word to each other, which is remarkable in itself as I've seen the other side of him when he didn't like someone. I loved him like a brother and am completely devastated knowing he won't be there anymore to talk to. I just found out today, and had to take off work to deal with the reality of it all and grieve. Wrote something to Robin and sent it. Got a card for Frankie and will get it out soon.

Even more devastating is that I cannot make it up for the memorial service. All these years I've told my wife that whenever Toad crossed over, I would drop everything and be at the memorial, hopefully to deliver a eulogy and anecdote to celebrate what a great life he lived. Breaks my heart that I can't do it now due to commitments here. I will be there in spirit that day no matter what. My wife may show up as she will be visiting her sister in Rohnert Park and said she'd try to get up there if her sis will go along.

My condolences to you and the entire staff at Toad Hollow......I can imagine the impact of his passing on all of you. He loved every one of you.

Toadally yours,
Dave Eklund

Well I did not know him well, but I do remember the first time he walked into our office at Opici and spoke in front of the Sales Force. My ribs were hurting so badly from laughing so hard. It was not until after the meeting that I realized he was related to Robin. What a gifted family! Toad was a great guy! Even though I did not know him well, I will remember him kindly. My deepest sympathy to his family and all those that are left behind. I am sure that his spirit is still with you all.

Rennie

Please pass on deepest sympathy to Frankie from myself and my dad. Even though I've only known Todd for just over 10 years, I consider him a dear friend and one of the few genuine people I've ever known. The time, effort and funds he devoted to the recovery of south Louisiana and Mississippi after Hurricane Katrina may never be fully known since he did so much anonymously, but that was Todd. The time I got to spend with him was always wonderful and fun. I'll miss the 7am phone calls to "shoot the breeze" and I'll regret not being able to make it to the winery in June when he offered the cottage. I know he and Rodney are together and toasting all of us.

My restaurant is holding a previously scheduled wine dinner this evening and we will open the evening with an Amplexus toast to Dr. Toad. He will be missed by many.

I hope to be there on the 25th.

Denis Barry, Owner
Hugh's Wine Cellar
4250 Highway 22
Mandeville, LA 70471

I first met Todd in '94 when I was a sales rep for Julius Schepps in Dallas. He was one of my first work days with a winery and I was so nervous until I met him. He jumped in the car and said "Good morning, young lady. I am Todd but you can call me Dr. Toad. So where are we going for lunch to enjoy some of my wine?" I instantly loved him. Years went by, my career went on and I found myself in Colorado working for Gallo Winery. I was commuting between Dallas and Denver. I was overwhelmed with moving and the new job. I was desperately trying to adjust to the new culture that was Colorado. I was in the lobby bar in the hotel that I was calling my home for a couple of months, feeling so sorry for myself that I could hardly breathe and suddenly a very happy, full of energy, smiling man jumped in my booth and said "Good evening, young lady. Looks like you could use an old friend." Todd was working the Colorado market and staying at that same hotel. God works in mysterious ways. Later that year, his wonderful wife Frankie and Todd helped me puppy sit my Golden Retriever while at the Telluride Wine Festival.

I kept up with Todd and Frankie throughout the years. When Todd got sick I immediately put him on my prayer list, so he was with me a second every night while I said my prayers for years. Years went by, my career went on, I got married and had a beautiful baby boy, Cooper. I shared all the pictures with Frankie and Todd. They sent Cooper a bib that had a frog on it that said "Tastes like Chicken." So typical. Finally, a month ago, my husband and a great friend, Wendie Waters, got to spend a very special night with Frankie and Todd while we were in Napa. It was a wonderful night for all of us. As all that knew Todd know, that was basically how all the nights were with him. Todd was a precious, special person and I am so very thankful I had the opportunity to know him. He will be missed!!!

Love you Todd,
Wendy

We send our deepest regrets at Todd's passing. What a magnificent person!!! He was the first "winemaker" we met along with Frankie at a St. Valentine's Day dinner at Luther's in Cloverdale back in 2001. We were newcomers to the area and what an incredible dinner it was with Todd and Frankie enlightening us on Sonoma County wines and lightening up the crowd! We will never forget. We joined the wine club... Anywhere we would see Todd he would greet us as if we were old friends. WOW! We will miss him.

Dick and Madeline Wallace

I used to work in the tasting room, and I'm at a loss as to express how shocked and sad I am about Todd. I am so sorry for everyone there. It is very numbing. Todd yelled at me once for driving too fast through the vineyard (I think I was going 20!) and Frankie came to my defense saying I shouldn't pay attention to him when he's mad! Because he was a big sweety. And indeed he was. Being part of the tasting room crew was the most fun when Todd came in. Our customers would always light up as if they were in the presence of a movie star. Todd would always get them laughing and suddenly there would be a group of 20 just hanging out like the tasting room was Todd's living room. I loved it when he would come behind the bar and start to pour. He would tell me to not be "stingy" with my pours. Toad Hollow is like a family and I know it is very hard to cope with such a loss. He was a great guy who lived large and I'm just proud I got to know him a little.

Best wishes to everyone there
Donna Meyer

We are Harry & Kitten, known to the Marina Maggots as "Mom & Dad Troutt":

The Troutt "family" started 45 years ago when we started "adopting adults" we met in the MarinaDistrict. The purpose was to become a support system for single adults, living alone/away from home. The first adopted was Annie Chestnut who kept losing her home/car keys, followed by 5 more females. The daughters cornered us one night and suggested we adopt some guys. We were surprised to find out a whole bunch of guys were interested in being adopted so within a few years we had close to 100 children, including Toad. The word got out in the MarinaDistrict that Toad Manner was THE PLACE to party and it wasn't unusual to drop by in the middle of the week and find the place was standing-room-only. Once a year we had an "adoption party" and Harry and I would present each newly adopted with a cocktail glass with their name engraved plus an Adoption Certificate. It took one year to become eligible for adoption - you had to meet the "family", attend all the parties, and NEVER leave a half empty drink in a bar. If you were a non-drinker, you had a year to correct that deficiency. Toad ended up building shelves at Toad Manner where all the "family glasses" were lined up alphabetically. When you walked into his bar you were served your drink in your own cocktail glass and we even had four "guest glasses" in case you got lucky and had a date. We kept everyone informed of up-coming birthday parties, weddings, and meeting potential adoptees through "Mom's Newsletter" that I mailed every month. The family is now scattered all over hell and gone, now number 385, and Mom's Newsletter has grown to 8 pages and goes out annually.

The Toad did have his hands full because more than once, "family" members fell of their barstools. For my birthday, the "children" gave me a barstool with a seatbelt and plaque that read: KITTEN TROUTT, "Super MOM", Happy 50th Birthday, July 4, 1983 - Your Rotten Kids.

Even after Toad and Frankie moved away, a bunch of the family drove to Arnold in a caravan and poor Todd was left with the job of trying to explain all his brothers and sisters - and none of us looked alike! Since we decided to keep a copy of all the Newsletters, we only need to read through them and find an endless supply of "Toad Stories". We will all miss him.

Harry & Kitten Troutt

Todd will forever have a place in my heart. When I moved to San Francisco in 1976 I was fortunate enough to work with Colleen Hernandez who introduced me to Toad Manner and life in the Marina. It was one of the best times in my life. I needed to sell my car. Todd found me a buyer within an hour of telling him. I also credit him with connecting me with a great apartment on Bay & Divisadero. His booming laugh was the best ever! I also got a Big Brother lecture from him when I turned up at the bar after a disastrous date with Tommy S. Toad Manner was my chosen family and to this day I cherish the friends I made there. I miss Colleen and hope she is "wasting away in Margaritaville" with Todd. It was fun to check the Toad Hollow website to get updates and was very happy to see CostPlus in Seattle carried Toad Hollow wine. We have enjoyed many a bottle. I will raise a glass to Todd this weekend, celebrating life in the Marina in the 70's. It was a great place to be! Frankie, what an exciting and fun ride through life with Todd must have been. My thoughts and prayers are with you and may all your memories give you comfort. You were married to a truly great man!

SueAnne Money